Saturday, March 9, 2013

DOROTHY-THERE IS NO PLACE LIKE HOME


So my boxes arrived yesterday and I have them already unpacked and 95% of things in place.  There are no flies on me and when I put my mind to something it gets done in record time.  It was great opening the boxes and not knowing exactly what was in each one.  I did have a list that I had made as I packed them back in November, but I didn’t record everything-I made a note of the big stuff to leave a little mystery when they finally made it to Africa.  It was unpacking that I realised that I left my list with the customs guy at the airport-dang.  It was a photocopy, but I just can’t remember where I left the original list.  I think Shelly may have it, so I will ask her.  At the end of the day I don’t really need the list for my next set of boxes, I had worked out what numbers were coming next and really it could have been working against me in Customs as I was telling him the stuff I had in there v’s next time they will (and I) just have to see what is in there as they are opened.  After giving all my stuff away in Brisbane in December, it was nice to unpack things this time and know that it was my stuff and that I was keeping it.  When I opened my 3 souvenir boxes it was nice to see things what had made it from my World Odyssey and it brought back a lot of travel memories.  Where I was when I bought the item and who I was with.  I also bought some of my Nana’s things that were given to me after she passed away a few years ago that she had collected on her travels and that was really sweet to have some ‘family’ items now in my place.  Other surprises included was a Berber Moroccan rug I purchased in July 2011 still in its wrapper from when I bought it, certain African pieces that I bought in Kenya and Africa that have traversed the globe and now back to where I bought them 2 years ago, talk about well- travelled items and with the original purchase, postage to Australia and having them couriered back again AND paying a handicraft tax on them-that makes for some expensive souvenirs!!!!  I also had a pair of African statues that I bought on my first trip to Africa, South Africa actually back in 2000-and the funny thing is I saw them on Friday at the Masai Markets-so they are still being sold 13 years later, seriously-exactly the same statues!!!!  I was happy to see my South American woven bags from Peru and Ecuador also still in wrappers from 12 months ago.  It was like opening a small treasure chest and what a great feeling! 


There were also 2 calendars that Shelly had bought me for Christmas.  They are the most tear jerking quotes and the words are something that I would say to Shelly or that she would say to me or have been said and it literally bought tears to my eyes as it reminded me of the great friendships that I have left back in Australia.  The month of Marchs quotes were:

Gratitude is a gift you can choose everyday
This is a time to look forward…but also a time to look back…. To see what has bought you here and to give thanks for all that has happened on the road of life.  It is the love and the joy we attain that warms our lives and our hearts, but it is the challenges we overcome that allow us to truly feel the glow of accomplishment
Celebrate the future
Hold dear the past
And live fully today

and……….

You’ve Made Such a Difference in My Life
Each day, I think of you and realise just how special you are.  You have made such a difference in my life.  For the many kind words you have spoken, foe the thoughtful things you have done, for the way you are always there sharing the special person you are…thank you!

I guess they are a little like positive affirmations and on the days that I am missing my ‘old’ home as I adjust to my ‘new’ home they are great little reminders that I do have the support of one of the most important people in my life and always will.  I miss you Shelly Belly AND my god-daughters every day, but I consider that is normal and no-one will ever replace them EVER.

I also didn’t realise how many clothes I had packed.  I haven’t had such a large selection of clothes since I really started my World Odyssey in March 2011.  I have pretty much been living out of a backpack for nearly 3 years, so to have a selection of clothes, a plethora, makes a nice change and I know I have more clothes on the way in my second set of boxes.  It does make me realise just how many clothes we DON’T need and this is coming from a clothes horse from way back.  It made me to start to think on the things that I did give away before I left.  Do I have any regrets?  Maybe just a few small things I am now wishing I had of kept, but I think I would have liked to have had more time to go through all my travel documents that I had kept from the last 15 years.  I think now I would have liked to have kept some more of the entry tickets, plane tickets etc…… and I think I would have kept my Wii, and in hindsight some photo frames but otherwise there are still no major regrets on letting everything go.  Even thinking about my mums stuff, if I had of kept some of her furniture, there is just no room here for it, so it was still the best decision to let it all go-even though I panic sometimes that I should have kept it, for what, to go where-and then I feel better again till the next time I think about it.    

The last bag I unpacked was filled with ‘Aussie’ food.  I had boxes of Cheezels, BBQ Shapes, Bacon and Cheese Arnott’s Shapes, Savoury Shapes, boxes of Cheds, packets of Tim Tams, bags of Burger Rings and also some bags of Twisties and I remember at the last minute throwing in a bag of Allen’s Red Frogs, Jelly Beans and Chico’s to round off the stash and it is a fine looking stash of food I must say.  Now I have to use extreme ‘moderation’ so that I don’t consume the whole amount of yummies in a whole week.  Restraint is not one of my greater virtues-but I will give it a good crack.  This will be serious character building at its best.  When I packed the food bag (back in November) I did check the used by date of the items and it all looked okay as I was initially getting the bags sent in January.  Well just the way everything worked out they got here the 1st March and some of the Mint Slices and Cheezels (and some Cheds and some BBQ Shapes) are past their expiry date by a few weeks.  Well after the process we went to to get all this stuff here, I am not going to let a few weeks of ‘used by dates’ put me off eating the food.  Initially I was annoyed, but after paying the additional tax on the stuff, unless there were living things on the food I was going to eat them.  I was surprised that opening a packet of Burger Rings 4 weeks passed their date and Mint Slices 5 weeks passed their date you would not even know, they taste just as good as I remembered so the hell with used by dates (and the cost in the end)-it all tastes like home.   

Knowing that my boxes were on the way I had the hindsight to get some book cases made in preparation for all my knick knacks to find a new home.  The great thing about Kenya is if you can’t find something -it can generally be made.  Because of the space I had in the living room I needed a certain size of book shelves to fit in, so with a carpenter just across the road, I decided to give the job to a local and then when they were finished they could just be walked across the road.  The bookcases were great.  They were made exactly to the dimensions that I had given them and after they left I got to play around with where they would go.  Initially when the cases were delivered I asked if they were heavy and they said no, but heck they weighed a ton and it is amazing the strength you have when you have to move things on your own.  They were tall-I asked them to be made 2m high and due to the floors of my apartments not being level the cases didn’t actually sit right or look right for that matter, dwarfing the room a little.  So after moving the furniture around a few times, taking a step back and re-assessing the room I had a stroke of genius and I turned both book cases on their sides to lay them flat instead of standing up and not only did this open up the room, but it also gave me additional shelf space (4m to be precise) and I used one for the TV to go on at one end and the other case at the other end of the room and after shifting the couch again, it was the PERFECT layout and I was very happy.  It was now looking more like home as I looked around and there were things from my ‘past’ around me and not just all new stuff.  I have a few boxes of ‘past’ stuff still in Brisbane and that will all eventually make it here as well, but what I have is a start. 

I also ordered a mirror for the lounge room wall from Richard (the guy across the road).  I went to collect it and I asked how I was to hang it on the wall, playing the single white damsel in distress-which worked as he offered to come over and do it for me which was nice.  With the mirror weighing nearly 8kg, I had a feeling that sticky hooks were not going to cut the mustard for this job.  My walls are concrete and as Richard didn’t have an electric drill he had a hand drill, you know the ones that look like a manual egg beater.  He used that to make a hole on the wall, then he used a screw driver to open up the hole more, then a piece of round dowel was hammered in the hole and then sawn off flush with the wall.  They then used the screw to drill into the dowel to get the grooves and then they unscrewed it, placed the mirror with the bracket over the made hole and then screwed it in place.  That’s how they do it here and at least I know it isn’t going to fall off the wall like 2 of my masks have the past week with the sticky hooks.  The mirror looks great and so does my place now!  As usual anything done additionally, like the delivery of the mirror and the installation gets a tip and I just hope that I am giving them enough and hopefully not too much. 

The other highlight of the Australian delivery was the arrival of the BBQ plate.  WOO HOO.  I cooked my first pork chop and steak this week for dinner!  AMAZING……. and really made a difference from the microwave meals I have been trying to compose and jazz up over the last 4 weeks.  A trip to the butcher was the highlight of my shopping day on Tuesday to buy meat and the prices weren’t too bad.  I guess for Kenya it is expensive, but western terms it is well priced and I am getting good quality meat and no the ‘supermarket’ variety.  Gee am I becoming a meat snob?  Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo  The steak was 995KSH a kilo (11.70AUD) the chicken was 975KSH a kilo (11.47AUD), the pork chops were 995KSH a kilo (11.70AUD0 and the Cumberland sausages were 895KSH a kilo (10.52AUD) I ended up spending 36AUD and got enough meat for 10 meals.  The upside eating my own microwave meals the last 4 weeks is that my portion sizes has been reduced which is the silver lining eating out of a microwave.  It was tough as they don’t have ready-made microwave meals here, so I was microwaving stuff that had to be pan cooked or shallowed fried, which still tasted okay, well passable, but nothing beats a steak on a BBQ plate! 

Still trying to find my feet in the ‘social’ world of Nairobi I took the step of messaging people on Facebook that are part of the NES (Nairobi Expat Social) group that had all made a comment on a feed of a breakfast that I had missed last month.  They all sounded like they were in the same boat as me to an extent.  They have jobs here, arrived this year and have just been too busy to get out and see the place and meet people.  Well I don’t have the excuse of being busy for a job but I felt the same about getting out.  So I personally sent them all a message introducing myself, in the end there were 7 messages sent and I have had a reply back from 6 of the ladies so far.  A lot of them have left the city for elections, but all promised that they would be in touch upon their return, so even if only half of them make the effort, I will have a few more people to meet in the coming weeks.  I also got a nice surprise back from a Ugandan contact I emailed in early January.  She didn’t have anyone she knew here in Kenya but she gave me 6 web addresses that advertise volunteer and paid jobs to check out and the offer to visit if I was ever in the area.  She is living in Jinja with her Ugandan husband-so you just never know I just may take up that offer one day.  We did stop there for 2 nights on my African overland-but it is a beautiful area that is for sure. 

There was still no news on the UN job front which I was expecting as there wasn’t actually a job available, I was just sending my CV through on the chance that something may come about in the future and AC was on leave until Friday.  Well exactly on the day AC was due back in the office I received an email asking if I had received her previous email about sending through my CV.  She NEVER got my email that contained my resume 2 weeks previously!!!  OH NO.  I hate the thought of anybody thinking I didn’t care and hadn’t sent it through.  AC must have also emailed my UN friend in Italy as she sent through my CV letting AC know that I had sent it through in the middle of February.  Gosh I felt terrible that she thought I hadn’t sent it-lucky for me I JC had received it and hopefully she could see that I had done the right thing.  So AC and I have a tentative plan to catch up in the coming weeks, which is another meeting and possible new friend….

Besides my boxes arriving this week the next BEST news was accidently finding a 3G network in my bedroom on the weekend.  I can only get 2G in the lounge room and kitchen and this is where I have been trying to access the internet for the last 2 weeks.  I was trying the USB modem option to see if that would work before I tied myself into an internet plan that was going to cost me 40AUD a WEEK.  The 2G connection was testing my patience as the 40AUD a week was looking more viable every time I jumped on the internet.  My saving grace was the power had gone off during the day and my bedroom has the best natural light source, so I took my computer in there to bang out a blog and as it connected up instead of a green light that indicates 2G I had a blue light which lets me know I am on a 3G connection!!!!!  THANK YOU INTERNET GODS.  I was back in the land of a fast internet connection; it was like a normal speed and let me tell you it was terribly exciting.  2G was slower than a snail in a wheelchair and could take up to 40 minutes to load 8 photos (painful) making it possibly the slowest in the whole world, but now I have stumbled on this small pocket of 3G (which is like a Ferrari in a Grand Prix) and costing me a fraction of what a ‘plan’ would have cost me.  Literally I am saving around 35AUD a week, which is 140AUD a month and when you aren’t working it is very precious money saved indeed.         

Home is where the heart is-I think I am finally here xx

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